By Carlos V. Cornejo A good book in managing our negative emotions is the one authored by renowned psychologist Susan David, entitled “Emotional Agility”. In her book she gave four ways to deal with destructive emotions such as anger, sadness, boredom, self-pity or nervousness. First, she suggested we need to be more accurate in describing our emotions. That we should be able to distinguish sadness from boredom, anger from hatred, anxiety from loneliness, etc. in assessing our emotions. Describing more accurately our emotions is like describing symptoms of our sickness to a doctor. A well-defined problem will be a much easier problem to solve. Second, she advises us to accept our negative emotions. Don’t run away from them by distracting ourselves with smartphone, use of social media or watching Netflix. Running away from it would just make it come back with a vengeance. I would want to inject a Christian remedy here. ...
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