A PHONE can connect us to a friend across the world within seconds, yet it can also make someone sitting beside us feel completely ignored. Social media is neither simply good nor bad. It is a powerful tool whose value depends greatly on how wisely we use it. Social media allows families to remain connected, especially when distance separates loved ones. It can spread useful information, support small businesses, provide learning opportunities, encourage charitable action, and give people platforms to share creativity. Used properly, it can strengthen relationships and contribute positively to society. Yet the same platforms can become sources of comparison, envy, anger, misinformation, vanity, and distraction. Endless scrolling can consume hours without producing anything worthwhile. Arguments can become vicious, private matters can become public, and carefully edited images can make ordinary lives appear disappointingly inadequate. The first discipline we need is self-control ....
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