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all our affairs and situations in life, we
should always go to God to ask for his help and guidance, and to trust his ways
and his providence, even if the outcome of our prayers and petitions appears
unanswered, if not, contradicted.
This should be the attitude to
have. It’s an attitude that can only indicate our unconditional
faith and love for God who is always in control of things, and at the same time
can also leave us in peace and joy even at the worst of the possibilities.
Remember the Book of
Ecclesiastes where it says that for everything there is a season, “a time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
and a time to pluck up what is planted; a time to kill, and a time to heal…”
But everything is under God’s control, and even if we are capable of eternity,
we just the same “cannot find out what God has done from the beginning to the
end.” (3,1ff) We just have to trust him.
We have to follow the example
of the many characters in the gospel who, feeling helpless in the many
predicaments they were in, earnestly rushed to Christ for some succor. They
went to him unafraid and unashamed and they got what they wanted.
It may happen that we may not
get what we want. And in this, we should not be too surprised or too worried.
What is sure is that God always listens and gives us what is best for us.
If our request is granted, it’s because it is good for us. We should however be careful
that the favor should not spoil us but should rather make us more thankful and
faithful to him.
If our request is not granted,
it could be because what we asked is actually not good for us. Examples of this
kind of cases are aplenty, and many would later on realize how lucky they were
that what they asked for was not granted.
Or it could be because the
manner of our request is stained by some motives that are not good and that can
spoil or corrupt us, or that can lead us to worse predicaments. In other words,
our intentions may not be pure. Some ulterior motives pervert our requests. We
should therefore correct that defect.
Another possibility is that
God is actually trying to show us another way to deal with a situation. He may
be asking us to pray more, if only to strengthen our faith that is always
needed in this kind of situations. In this, we have to learn to be open to these
possibilities and to be sharply and promptly perceptive of God’s designs. Thus
we just have to be game in the mysterious ways of God.
But we should not forget that
God will always listen to us and will act on our requests promptly and in the
best way for us, considering both our immediate and the ultimate needs, and no
matter how imperfect the object, motives and manner of our petitions are.
Remember the parable of the
persistent widow and the unjust judge narrated in the gospel of St. Luke,
chapter 8. The conclusion of that parable is the following lesson we should
learn at heart:
“Will not God bring about
justice for his chosen ones, who cry out to him day and night? Will he keep
putting them off.?” (7)
This lesson is reiterated in
the gospel of St. Matthew where Christ said: “What man of
you, if his son asks him for bread, will give him a stone? Or if he asks for a
fish, will give him a serpent? If you then, who are evil, know how to give good
gifts to your children, how much more will your Father who is heaven give good
things to those who ask him!” (7,9-11)
These words are not meant to
make us passive and simply reactionary to the different events of our life.
They simply mean that we have to trust God’s providence completely even as we
use all our faculties to know and follow God’s will and ways.
We cannot go far if we rely
simply on our own powers and have no trust in God’s
providence. Sad to say, this is what we are seeing aplenty these days. People
who choose to be on their own cannot avoid falling into disappointments,
sadness and depression.
We have to learn to trust God
regardless of how things are. We may commit mistakes, but then if we are with
God, everything will always work out for the good.
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