Laoag
City could be one of the most LGBT-friendly
cities in the Philippines. A third of its elected councilors are openly and
proudly gay. There’s Rbee Ablan who comes from a prominent political family,
businessman Handy Lao, and Mikee Fariñas who happens to be a daughter of the
power couple—the Laoag city mayor and vice mayor. All three city councilors ran
on a platform of gender equality and promised to promote gender-sensitive
legislation. True to their promise, they pushed for the passage of The
Comprehensive Anti-Discrimination Ordinance of Laoag City which is currently
under review by the Sangguniang Panlalawigan. Moreover, Laoag mayor Chevylle V.
Fariñas is known to be friendly with the LGBT community, and she has placed gay
people in prominent positions in her administration. Gender discrimination was
unheard of at the Laoag City Hall…
Until lately. It comes as a
surprise that there is much resentment among members of the local LGBT community
at this time because of an issue surrounding an event spearheaded ironically by
Mr. Lao—the Mister Laoag pageant.
Some believe organizers
rejected one aspirant on account of his suspected relationship with a gay
person. The basis? A photo of him in an intimate pose with a transgender. Note
that the picture showed no nudity or any taint lewdness, but did give event
organizers a hint that the aspirant could be in a same-sex relationship. During
the interview held open to the public, the seven-member panel asked the
controversial aspirant (CA) if it is true. Out on the spot, he denied it. The
panel also felt at liberty to ask CA what roles he played in bed. Note that
they did not ask these questions to all candidates.
Thirty-six applicants vied
for 16 slots, and CA did not make the cut. In an interview, Mr. Lao explained
to me that they assessed every aspirant holistically and that they also
assessed the total personality of each aspirant. While Mr. Lao believed that
they did not rate CA rated based on one issue alone, the councilor did not deny
that the issue could have, indeed, hurt his chances. It was a hairsplitting
decision. Of the seven members of the selection panel, 4 voted to reject CA
while 3 wanted him in. Mr. Lao was with the minority.
According to insiders, the
organizers were worried at how having CA would affect the reputation of the
show. Mr. Lao said they also wanted to protect the candidate from possible
bashing and ridicule. They felt it was not time to have a candidate like CA in
Mister Laoag.
There was outrage among LGBT
members in Ilocos. Feeling insulted and rejected, they cried foul. They were
quick to point out about hypocrisy and double standards. They felt betrayed by
the bigoted act, especially because friends committed them. Those friends send
the messages loud and clear: Having a same-sex relationship will deny you
opportunities; LGBT relationships ruin credibility.
Mr. Lao was well-aware of the
outrage, and, in an interview with me, he confessed to have shed tears over the
controversy. While he stands for the collegial decision of the screening panel,
he accepts that shortcomings and excesses they may have been committed. These,
he said, they will seriously address in the next editions of Mister Laoag. As
of our time of interview, the councilor is yet to reach out to CA or the
members of the LGBT community. He said he was still collecting his thoughts and
planning how to proceed.
“Needless to say, yes,
something like that happened,” remarked Ms. Fariñas, promising to look closer into
the matter. As an advocate for equality and respect that is due all human
beings in the city, the councilor says the issue disturbs her. “I don’t think
anybody should be judged based on their relationships because acceptance and
respect inspire human persons to perform better and do well.” He said that the
mayor will gather parties concerned to shed light on the unfortunate
controversy.
Mr. Ablan, for his part,
stressed that he will never tolerate discrimination. “I, for one, suffered from
discrimination almost all my life. I know how it feels and I know what a person
in this situation goes through,” he shared before asking, “Do we all have to
have the same lives to enjoy the same rights?”
Aian Raquel, provincial
tourism officer, makes this sad note, “Everybody knows what’s happening. No
amount of sugarcoating and euphemism can hide homophobia even within the bakla circles.”
It is my fervent and sincere
hope, dear karikna, that all
concerned will properly address this issue so that we can honestly advance the
right of individuals to freely affirm their sexual orientation, gender
identity, and expression.
As for Laoag City and its
illusions of LGBT advancement, the bubble has burst. Only if we successfully
shrug off the medieval, parochial, bigoted tendencies of people—especially
those who make decisions that bear an impact on our collective
consciousness—can we truly move forward.
We wish the Mister Laoag
pageant well, and its pure, immaculate, unsullied reputation, and I seriously
pray that they settle this issue in the soonest time. There should be no place
for hate and hurt, not only because we will be celebrating the Laoag City
Fiesta and Ilocos Norte’s bicentennial in the next days, but more because every
day we struggle in a world already filled with manmade misery and conflict, to
live and let live.
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