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How to bring a love child to America

The term “love child” is a euphemism for an illegitimate child or child born out of wedlock. This is a misnomer because it implies that only a child born out of wedlock is the product of love. Children born in wedlock are also products of love. Originally “bastard” was the term used for an illegitimate child. Older statutes and court decisions use that term.
 
Senator Juan Ponce Enrile in his memoir edited by my fraternity brod Nelson Navarro admits that people referred to him while growing up in Cagayan as “Oy bastardo!” (Hey, bastard!). His father was Atty. Alfonso Ponce who later changed his name to Alfonso Ponce Enrile. Manong Johnny acknowledges that his father sired a number of children with different women. This lends credence to the anecdote that lawyers are the champions in fathering “love children”. [Full disclosure: I am a lawyer but I have no love child]. When I went to a Makati bookstore to buy his book the salesgirl told me to go to the biography section. Another giggled that if I cannot find it there to go to the fiction section.

The Immigration and Nationality Act (INA) and immigration regulations do not use the term “love child” but use “child born out of wedlock” or “illegitimate child”.  INA § 101(b)((1)(D). 8 CFR § 204.2(d)(2)(iii). The term “child” includes a child born in wedlock and out of wedlock. INA §101(b)(1)(A) and §101(b)((1) (D). When a “child” is 21 years of age and above, INA refers to the child as “son” or “daughter” as the case may be.

A U.S. citizen or lawful permanent resident may file a petition for visa classification of a legitimate or illegitimate child (son or daughter if 21 or over). INA §§ 201, 203 and 204.

The difference in treatment is in the kind of evidence required to support the petition. If a petition is submitted by the father of a legitimate child, the primary evidence required are the birth certificate of the child, the marriage certificate of the parents, and proof of the termination of the parents’ prior marriages, if any.

However, if a petition is submitted by the purported father of an illegitimate child, the primary evidence required are documents that the petitioner is the natural father and that a bona fide parent-child relationship was established when the child was unmarried and under 21 years of age. Evidence to show that the petitioner is the child’s natural father is the child’s birth certificate showing the father’s name. Evidence to establish a bona fide parent-child relationship include documents that demonstrate emotional and/or financial ties or a genuine concern and interest for the child’s support, instruction, and general welfare. There should be evidence that the father and child actually lived together or that the father held the child out as being his own, and that he provided for some or all of the child’s needs, or that in general the father’s behavior evidenced a genuine concern for the child. The most persuasive evidence is documentary evidence which was contemporaneous with the events in question, such as money order receipts or canceled checks showing the father’s financial support, the father’s income tax returns with the child’s name as a dependent, the father’s medical or insurance records naming the child as a beneficiary or dependent, school records of the child showing the petitioner as the father, correspondence between father and child, and similar evidence. 8 CFR § 204.2(d)(2)(iii).

Complying with USCIS requirements is not easy. In case of doubt, USCIS will deny the petition. If you really love your “love child,” it is best to consult with a lawyer experienced in this kind of petition and who has a successful track record. The lawyer can tell you what alternative evidence to submit if you do not have all those that the regulations require or what additional evidence to submit to be more convincing. How much does it cost to hire a lawyer? A fee of not more than $3,000 is reasonable. If you really love your “love child” that is a trifle.


(Atty. Tipon has a Master of Laws degree from Yale Law School and a Bachelor of Laws degree from the University of the Philippines. He specializes in immigration law and criminal defense. Office: 905 Umi Street, Suite 201, Honolulu, HI 96819. Tel. (808) 225-2645. E-Mail: filamlaw@yahoo.com. Websites:  www.MilitaryandCriminalLaw.com, www.Hawaiimigrationattorney.com. He is from Laoag City and Magsingal, Ilocos Sur. He served as an Immigration Officer. He is co-author of “Immigration Law Service, 1st ed.,” an 8-volume practice guide for immigration officers and lawyers. Listen to the most funny, interesting, and useful radio program in Hawaii on KNDI at 1270 AM dial every Thursday morning at 7:30. This article is a general overview of the subject matter discussed and is not intended as legal advice. No attorney-client relationship is established between the writer and readers relying upon and/or acting pursuant to the contents of this article.)

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